Cats do not understand scolding the way humans do, as they do not comprehend language or the reasons behind being yelled at.
Instead of associating punishment with a specific behavior, a cat may simply learn to avoid the owner during that time, continuing the undesired behavior when unobserved.
Timing is also crucial; if the scolding occurs after the behavior or during another action, the cat may misinterpret the reason for the reprimand, leading to confusion rather than correction.
Scolding often fails to address the underlying cause of a cat’s behavior, which is usually motivated by a reward, such as fun or a better vantage point.
A more effective approach is to modify the environment to discourage unwanted actions - for example, making certain areas uncomfortable with double sided tape or aluminum foil - and simultaneously providing acceptable alternatives like window perches or interactive toys. This redirection encourages positive behaviors by meeting the cat’s natural needs in appropriate ways.
Excessive scolding can damage the relationship between cat and owner, causing the cat to feel anxious, jumpy, or fearful.
Negative attention may unintentionally reinforce bad behavior by fulfilling the cat’s desire for interaction.
Using positive reinforcement - such as treats, affection, or play - to reward desirable behaviors and gently redirect misbehavior helps build trust and encourages the cat to repeat the behaviors owners want, creating a healthier and more harmonious dynamic.
Chewy editorial team understands that while scolding your cat may feel like an immediate solution when they misbehave, but it rarely leads to positive change and can often create confusion or anxiety for your feline friend.
Instead of scolding, focusing on patience, understanding, and positive reinforcement will strengthen the bond you share and help guide your cat toward better behavior with love and respect.
